Hello, !
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Ever had
someone who challenges you in your life - in the way you think? Who asks questions that either makes you stronger in your belief or causes you to change your assumptions?
My coach Myron Golden says, âThe hardest work that most people never do is think.â (By the way, he has an EXCELLENT YouTube channel - if you, like me, enjoy being challenged in your thinking!)
Right now, I am on Day 3 of the âMake Your Marriage Great Againâ challenge. Â
I could have called it the âMake Your Life Great Againâ challenge - because that title would have been true also.
The quality of our life depends upon the quality of our relationships, and the quality of our relationships depends upon the quality of our thinking.
And one of the things that have made all my relationships better, infinitely better, was by THINKING better.
And I learned how to THINK better by asking BETTER questions.
Instead of âWhatâs wrong with me?â, I now ask, âWhat do I appreciate about myself?âÂ
Instead of âWhatâs wrong with them?â, I trained myself to ask, âWhy did they think that was a good idea?â
A better question turns the answer from condemnation to curiosity.
Curiosity brings greater understanding - of yourself, of the other person, and a better understanding of which course to choose to take next.
If there was one gift that I could give you - it would be this - the courage to CREATE AMAZING relationships in your life.
And, it always starts with ONE person -Â
One person who is able to see herself in a loving way,Â
- All her flaws
- All her
fabulousness
And is able to be compassionate, be curious, be courageous, but never
condemning,
And then goes on to share that gift with someone else in her life.
You've got this - and you deserve THIS!
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Be Loved,Â
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